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Jed Moffitt's avatar

Having read Lajamanu, I felt like I was more prepared for this one. The feeling that dominated for me was a sad yet stoic and sort of oddly noble acceptance.

I mean, what can you say. Stuff happens... I imagine especially out there.

Rebecca Cook's avatar

Dave, I love this poem. His reaction/non-reaction. It is....oh I don't know, maybe cold in some ways, but also funny, and also plugged into the thing that is so much larger than us.

I grew up on a farm, and this matter-of-fact attitude toward animals, eps. the deaths of animals and pets, is normal to me. And to some degree it extends to the deaths of people because I have a rather "of course" attitude towards death. It is what it is. To be shocked by it, unless of course it is shocking and there is no preparation for it like a car accident on the way home (and even then....perhaps I am always on guard), seems ridiculous. I am rereading Dune right now--You are your Water. We are transitory, we are just passing through, stopping a moment.

I had a dog who lived in the house with me and died in 2017. We hung out for 10 years, she was with me constantly--her death was different because she was constantly absent after she died. For a long time I could still hear/feel her moving beside me.

But the other deaths in my life have seemed a part of the fabric of life. And in fact, they are.

But writing this, I do feel a coldness. I'm not great with emotions, with letting them be when they occur, letting them stay. There is much to consider here.

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